How to become confident in Life?

Confidence is one of the most sots after thing in present world. Every person wants to have confidence and simultaneously, confidence is desired in every person. Most of us already know it’s important in life. We know how confidence can create a huge difference in our life. We have seen my confident people in our life and we have always tried to look like them. We have seen how confidence has made other people more successful than us. We like confidence and we want to be confident.

However, problem is that we are not able to achieve it. Very few of us are able to realize this. Moreover, it is also very difficult to remain confident in all conditions whatsoever they may be. For example many people at certain times are confident and at some other place and time they behave like people who lack confidence. To find a person who is really confident in all conditions and all situations is a hard job; however, if we meet one such person then we can clearly recognize differences between him and other people who lack confidence. These types of people are extraordinary in them and are highly successful in their ventures. A different charm can be seen on their faces. Everyone likes to talk to him, work with him, love him and likes to become like him.

This is the main reason behind the success of these people. We know all these secrets; therefore, we have a desire to become confident. However to become a confident person is not an easy task because we have earlier also tried many ways to become confident. We followed many people for this and read many books, sadly nothing helped us. We are still same old people, who are looking towards others to fulfil their needs. We depend on them and also controlled by them. The main question is that we ever tried to see reasons behind it. Reasons can be many behind our failure to become a confident person. Some of them are associated with our lifestyle and understanding of world.

Many people in this world born and die as slaves of other. How you may ask? It is simple most us doesn’t live our own life. We are not living to fulfil our dreams, but most of the time we are only fulfilling others dreams. Other people exploit us by fulfilling our small dreams in the exchange they are fulfilling their large dreams. Therefore most of us don’t live their real life. We are only able to achieve our some basic dreams. Therefore inside we remain as unfilled person. And an unfulfilled person can never be confident. We are searching confidence in wrong things and at wrong places.

Real confidence lies inside us and we can achieve it by fulfilling our true desires. We do not need anybodies help for achieving it. It is already present in all of us, only the world has made this process complex. They do not want us to be confident. They require us to fulfil their dreams because without us they cannot do this. We are required to understand our inner self and get its help in searching purpose of our life. Once we realize our purpose of living and try to fulfil it. Then day by day we will find our self more confident. This is the most simple and easiest way to get confident in life which God has made for us and everybody has right have it.

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