Friday, May 02, 2008

Overcrowded Loneliness

Today, we live in a busy world. In this busy world, nobody has any time for any one. In the present world, we are overcrowded by so many people, however when the some need comes arises in our life, we find no one present to help us. For everyone their own work is more important than us. This is true up to some extent with all of us also. We have every kind of media available for our entertainment still many times we have nothing to watch or listen. Recent years we have advanced in many fields. If we compare our self with the people’s 30 years back than we are very advanced and busy than them. Facilities wise we have more options than them. In every way we are in good condition than them, therefore we are required to be happier than them.
However, the realities are totally different from it. People are very busy still they are more alone than people’s 30 year back. Everyone is running from here and there, even then they are not able to complete their daily tasks. More and more entertainment channels are coming up to entertain us. As compared with the people of 30 years back we have more ways to remain in contact with our friends. We have mobiles, e-mails, chats and voice chats. However, to everyone’s surprise there are more number of people who feel alone as compared to their friends 30 year back. For example when I bought my mp3 player, I thought that I never be bore again. Now I have so much choice of music to listen. However within two months I also started becoming bore with my mp3 player.

Life has become so competitive that we are always short of time. We are over burdened by the expectations of others. Chances of getting defeat at work place or in life are more prominent these days. Today the numbers of people who carry on with single job and partner are becoming less. At jobs they are not able to maintain speed with others and felt lonely. In relations also they are not able to provide the required time. In toady world, evil of comparison is increasing between people, we compare our self and other compare us. Our boss compares us, our wife compares us and more importantly we compare our self with others. The only difficulty with this comparison is that their expectation from us and our expectations from our selves increases many times.

When we are not able to fulfil these expectations which are difficult task in today’s world, we feel alone and discarded. 30 years back very less of people go outside their home for work. Therefore in difficulties and emotional disturbance they have their family and friends support. However, it is not so with today’s generation. Today’s loneliness is more dangerous in many ways because it increases the wrong feelings in one’s mind. Some opt for suicides, some lose their mental balance and others indulge in antisocial activities, which is bad in all ways for society as a whole. Below are the some of the ways to solve this problem and by indulging in them we can decrease our loneliness.

1) Have some creative work for free time like writing, painting or dancing.
2) Give your life some small and achievable goals.
3) Try to work on your interest rather on the others expectation. We really enjoy what we like.
4) Help other is settling their life.
5) Indulge in social activities.
6) Make more and more friends, but never forget friends who are real and helped us.
7) Take some correspondence studies according to your interest.
8) Go for vacations with close people.

1 comment:

Steve Lockie said...

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Steve

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