Many times, we came across people who always remain unhappy and we hardly find single trace of happiness on their faces. When we ask these people that why they are unhappy then they blame others and past circumstances for their unhappiness. This is common story of most of unhappy people. They all believe that others are reason of their unhappiness even if these people do not live with them today. One of main reason of unhappiness of these people is their tendency to remain in past moments and not allow present moment to open new options for them.
During life, we all struggle with past and future because we constantly remember our past moments and we worry about our future. In meantime, we totally miss our present time. To stay happy in life, we need to remember two things. First, happiness is present inside us and it doesn’t depend on anyone else. Second, present moment is most precious asset in our hands. Therefore, it is important to burry bad memories of past with time because no one can alter his past however, we can ruin our present by worrying too much about past. Same apply to future too; do not waste your time by worrying about future.
Every person should develop a confidence to face his future boldly. Similarly, develop a habit to not allow past moments to ruin your present time. Finally, understand great secret of life that Happiness is inside job and we can not allow others or circumstance to ruin it. When we commit to ourselves that we will remain happy under all conditions then we find happiness in all walks of life.