We see many people around us, who are very good in speaking. They can speak up to several hours uninterruptedly. They may have any knowledge about topic or not. This is not the actual issue because speaking is not an issue at all.
We can define this problem as some kind of complex. These kinds of people can be found everywhere. Everyone has some friends of this type. What make them to speak so much? There are many reasons behind this. Now we will discuss them one by one.
First and common one is superiority complex. This kind of people thinks that they are smartest creature on the earth and everybody around them is a fool. They think that they have the maximum knowledge on any matter. Therefore everybody should come to them for their advice. Everybody finds such kind of people at some time in their lives.
These people have developed this habit because of success of their earlier same behaviour. They take this behaviour granted for making a good place in society. But this is not a right thing to do. This behaviour may give someone some success initially; however this behaviour is going to fail in long terms, when they meet more complex person then them.
Second reason is due to habit of me first. This is also a kind of complex or habit which makes the person habitual of jumping in to everything irrespective of its knowledge. They want to give their advice and that to in first place. This kind of people is not under the same category of first ones. Here behaviour is habitual and not planned.
They are just obsessed with this kind of behaviour. This behaviour starts with the childhood desires to be first at everything. However, these people fail in growing mentally. A child always remains inside them and inferiority complex may also be the other reason.
Third is forced behaviour. Many times people come from families, where other listen to them if they say forcefully and repeatedly, which makes them use this type of behaviour with others also? Moreover we may have friends and colleges of same type. Then it further makes us to behave in this way. This behaviour is different from the second one, as it is for some time. We remain in effect of it as long we are forced to do so. People come in to our normal behaviour soon after the removable of forcing agency.
Fourth type of behaviour has no linkage to anything. Nobody knows why this occurs. These people are not habitual or forced or knowingly do this. They just do it. One can say this is in their genes. They are made for speaking. Their behaviour remains unchanged for their whole life
We can define this problem as some kind of complex. These kinds of people can be found everywhere. Everyone has some friends of this type. What make them to speak so much? There are many reasons behind this. Now we will discuss them one by one.
First and common one is superiority complex. This kind of people thinks that they are smartest creature on the earth and everybody around them is a fool. They think that they have the maximum knowledge on any matter. Therefore everybody should come to them for their advice. Everybody finds such kind of people at some time in their lives.
These people have developed this habit because of success of their earlier same behaviour. They take this behaviour granted for making a good place in society. But this is not a right thing to do. This behaviour may give someone some success initially; however this behaviour is going to fail in long terms, when they meet more complex person then them.
Second reason is due to habit of me first. This is also a kind of complex or habit which makes the person habitual of jumping in to everything irrespective of its knowledge. They want to give their advice and that to in first place. This kind of people is not under the same category of first ones. Here behaviour is habitual and not planned.
They are just obsessed with this kind of behaviour. This behaviour starts with the childhood desires to be first at everything. However, these people fail in growing mentally. A child always remains inside them and inferiority complex may also be the other reason.
Third is forced behaviour. Many times people come from families, where other listen to them if they say forcefully and repeatedly, which makes them use this type of behaviour with others also? Moreover we may have friends and colleges of same type. Then it further makes us to behave in this way. This behaviour is different from the second one, as it is for some time. We remain in effect of it as long we are forced to do so. People come in to our normal behaviour soon after the removable of forcing agency.
Fourth type of behaviour has no linkage to anything. Nobody knows why this occurs. These people are not habitual or forced or knowingly do this. They just do it. One can say this is in their genes. They are made for speaking. Their behaviour remains unchanged for their whole life
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