We can only work on our goals or dreams when our mind is 100% free and working in this direction. Because of the mind manipulators, we waste lots of our mind energy on the issues and matters which actually don't relate to us. These people are so smart and egoist that they only think about their own problems and pains. They never give a positive thought to your problems and only try to take control of your mind so that you can work for them.
For them, you are just a mental slave and nothing more. With the help of their strategies and negative approach, they keep on feeding our mind with their own issues and problems. Sometimes, the suffering people become so blind to their problems that they start working for help of these manipulators. However, the problems is that the pains of such people never go and they also try to make you a part of all this suffering.
They themselves do not make a single step to solve their own problems, but want from you all help. Many people waste years after years for these people and never get a time to live a life as they wanted. To live our life fully, we need to free ourselves from the clutches of these manipulators. These people will us all tactics to feed negativity and guilt in our mind. They will make us feel that we are responsible for all of their troubles.
It is important for everyone to understand that every adult in this world is responsible for his life and he can't blame others for it. If someone is putting blame on you for the pains in life, then simply ignore such people and move away from them. There is a tendency in some people that they will never accept the problems present in their life because of their own actions. They just expect everything from others and use mental manipulations to use others as their mental slaves.
We need to first identify such people who try to occupy a place in our minds. These people always exaggerate their pains and problems so that they look so large that you are forced to consider them first than yourself. With time, we come to know about such people and then, it is important to cut off such people from life because otherwise they will never allow us to grow.