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Equation of Desires and Happiness

Desires, desires, desires------and desires. We are all obsessed with them. If someone asks you a question that how a single human can have so many desires? Then it will be very difficult for you to answer this question because no body is able to answer this question so far. When one of our desires gets fulfilled then thousand more desires comes up instantly.

Desires are not bound to anybody. A poor can have them and simultaneously a rich can also have them. Desires are some thing, which everybody has in abundance. Every one has its own set of desires. Someone desires for money and other for a beautiful wife. Desires are endless. They can be from a small trivia to highly expensive thing.

Now question which comes is that is it good to have a desire or not? Definitely desires are good and they motive us to do many things in life. However the important thing is that they are must in controlled number and in one’s achievable limit. Desires provide us the energy to fulfill our dreams. It give…

Unknown Fears

There nearly 90% of people in world who are affected by unknown fears. These fears are wiping out them slowly and slowly. With the growth of technological advancements and hectic schedules, these fears are becoming more and more prominent. The main fear among them is fear of future. Future is not seen by anybody and nobody knows what's there in future is for him.

Still most of us remain anxious about our future. The main reason for the rise of future worries as major fear is that we are living in extremely erratic world. Nothing here is stable. Everybody is running for something. Competition is very stiff and therefore people at the lower level obtain no right to make their decisions. They are just forced to behave, live and work according to the orders of the others.

As the things are not in their control, therefore frequently situations become out of their control. They find themselves as hostage in the hands of others. Any losses out of these conditions where they have no authori…

My First love My Teacher

I still remember those days when I was in six standards. That was very tender age in all ways and as a child; I was not much grown emotionally at that stage. I was not very clear about love and sex. I had never experienced love for any girl before. All the girls in my class were same for me as boys. There was no restriction on sitting with them. We play with them and sometimes even touches them also. However never any feeling of love or sex came in my mind.

Everything was going smoothly, one day a beautiful English teacher came to our class. She was our new English teacher. This was her first assignment. She had recently passed her masters in English. She was approximately 22-23 years old. Her height was average. She was a clear example of how a beautiful and adult woman should look like. Her every body part was in a mature state of adulthood. This was my first experience of seeing a so beautiful woman. I could clearly see a huge difference between her and the girls of my class.

She …

How difficult it to be like a woman?

We say that women are one of the greatest creatures of the mankind. There are lot of songs, stories, literatures and poems, which are written in admiration of them. However in reality when we see the actual condition of many women around us then all these things just look as false quotes. A woman plays a very important role in the expansion of mankind; it is difficult for the any human to come in to this world without the support of her.

She feeds us in her womb for nine months and suffers all the pains without showing any sign of regret. She plays lot of other important roles in our lives without which it is not possible for us to live a happy life. However, still our behaviors toward women require a substantial change. A woman starts facing discrimination in life from her birth and this whole story continues till her death. Women even after so many years of development of mankind are not able to find any respectable place for themselves.

In India everyday, we can find many cases in wh…

Indian Journalism

Journalism has come a long age in India. It has seen long changes in India culture and society. Today with the entry of many new news channels and print media, its concept are changing very fast. Toady this is a hot carrier option for the many youth of India. Newer colleges are coming up every year to offer the journalism courses. Twenty years back there were very few selected individuals, who have the courage to enter into journalism.

Rewards in term of money were not very high, but the risks associated were present in abundance. Corruption was at its peak. Media was mostly influenced by the political parties. More over the number of print media was very less and TV was in its initial stages. Therefore choosing a carrier in journalism at that time requires lot of guts. That’s why we are seeing these journalists today as the Icons in their field.

Their name is like a brand image for many news channels and print media. Many news channels in India are just running due to their brand names…

Three ways to make a women happy

Woman is a wonderful creature of God. She is made by the God to spread happiness to mankind and that what she is doing in this world? Women have always remained ahead in fulfilling the desires of others. Every woman is very innocent and strives only for small praises. All the Women like every human being love praise. This is the time tested thing with women. Many people have used it and got success in winning the hearts of the women. We can also use this age old technique to make woman of our life happy. However we are required follow some caution in our behaviors. Women are very strong in understanding and analyzing behaviors. This is like a God gift to them.

They can very easily understand the motives behind your praise. If they found your praise superficial or lacking feeling, then they are not likely to respond to your praise. We are required to judge our praise well and avoiding repeated praises. We should not use complex praising sentences, which are difficult to understand. A si…

Role of emotions in life

Emotions play a major role in our life because we are governed by them in parts of our life. Many people even after achieving success or attaining an old age remain in the grip of emotions. This is not the fault of anyone because we all are living in a close system of society where our previous behaviors and experiences determine our next actions. Some of the emotions like fear, sex, anger, love and grief etc are so strong that they compel us to do lot of things which we will never do if we can think on them properly. For example many people kill others due to angry or fear and we accept the crimes of the others.

Strong emotions are good but it is bad to be in control of them. Mostly we never realize when we come in the control of these emotions. In the situations of strong emotions lot of hormones are secreted by our body which makes it impossible for our brain to take any decisions. In this situation our most of the decisions are biased and are based on previous experiences or inhere…

How right was Saddam Hussein’s execution?

I am not trying to create a controversy but I am only want to create a debate on the whole issue of execution of Saddam Hussein. I want to ask that was it the right way adopted for the execution of Saddam Hussein.

We may agree that he had committed great crimes against the civilization. However I have few more points to raise that Why Amnesty has to condemn this hanging and whole procedure of trail adopted against Saddam Hussein, because there are lot of questions which remained unheard and a lot of hurry is shown by the US-aided government to hang the Saddam Hussein.

At present Saddam Hussein was in the state of helpless and therefore it was not necessary to hang him and life imprisonment was enough to realize him of his crimes. Saddam Hussein hanging has created a big set back to the reconciliation drive in the Iraq. Today with this execution the divide between Shia and Sunni communities of Iraq has become wider and may effects any efforts of Iraq’s reconstruction.

Moreover this hangin…

How strong mind can work?

Mind also known to have many unique powers and many things which we believe on the world is only due to the power of our mind. This simple mind is known to create many complicated things around all of us. Mostly an average person is only available to use 2 to 5% of his brain, now any one can imagine the possibilities by using 100% of the mind.

Mediation has helped many people in understanding their hidden powers and using their mind more. In its full potential mind can create many wonders which are otherwise difficult to believe. Mind holds inside it more hidden secrets which even the scientists of today are not able to tell us. Our feeling, emotions and thoughts all go through our mind and create a world for us. We see things as mind tells us to believe.

Many psychologists have proved lot of theories in front of us; however every theory leads to more hidden secrets. There are many people who have even used their mind to communicate with the people staying thousands of kilometers away. …

Life is a great joke

Like is a great joke most of the times, however the problem is that most of people live this joke very seriously. Life is given to us by God for enjoying and creating fun in life. Whereas we all see lot of sorrow and unhappiness around us, moreover the amazing fact is that most of these sorrows and unhappiness are our creations or overall our all these are the weak points of society. Either we commit most of mistakes in life due to our greed or forced by the society to commit these. However in all this run we miss many beautiful moments of the life. Life is full of many exciting things which offer a great enjoyment to all of us.

We all have born in this world with no thoughts and desires and a child only wants to enjoy his life. However we burdened this innocent soul from childhood with lot of expectations and desires. In this way a circle of expectations and desires starts moving in the life of every person. At the end we get an egoist person out of this child who is finding difficult…