Saturday, December 31, 2016

What others think is their problem doesn't make it yours?

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Most of people in the world remain effective with this thing that what others think about them. Many of them even become sad when they don't get positive feedback from others. Therefore, many people make the mistake of convincing others about themselves and changing their thoughts, but rarely few succeed in this fight because we can't change the thinking of others. 

People will only think what they want to think because they can only see the one dimension of your life. They can't see your problems or struggles. So never try to convince others or to change their thinking. This is a futile effort and it will only increase your pain further.   

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Simply live your life as you want to live and leave it to others what they want to think. Keep calm and focus on your life. It is our mind which creates many stories and many times force us to think negatively. There are few people in the world who unnecessarily try to dig into others life and giving them advice about how they should live their life. 

These people are most unwanted people in the life and it is important to keep a distance from them. Such people always try to create turmoils in your life by creating emotional storms in your life. So be strong and try to focus on what is essential for your growth. 

Only trust people who were there in your difficult time else others are just spectators who only knows to give advice to others how they should live. Do remember that it is your life and only you know how to live it properly. 

We can't blindly follow the advice of everyone who comes with advice because many people are not of this mental level that we can trust them and there is no guarantee that they are our real friends. So don't worry what others think, simply keep busy yourself with your life only. 

Those who like you or love you, they will understand your stand and those who don't care about you they may give hundred suggestions. 

Sunday, December 18, 2016

Control your Thoughts Control your Life

Our thoughts have great power over our life.  It is our thoughts which are giving shape to our reality; therefore, by controlling our thoughts, we can control our life and the future outcomes in life. When our mind is occupied by negative thoughts, then, we shape a negative future for us and attract many problems into our life. So learn to remove the negative thoughts from your life and mind which are making you weak.

To remove these thoughts, you will need to remove the situations, people and surrounding which are causing these thoughts. Unless you are available to remove such things which are causing negative thoughts in your mind, it is very difficult to remain positive. At some time in life, we all need to take a step and move away from the things which are causing troubles in our life.

The other thing, you can do is to make your mind strong and fill it with positive thoughts as much as you can so that there remains no space for negative thoughts. Negative thoughts are most destructive when our mind is weak or it is free. So make your mind strong and keep it busy in positive matters. Meditation has a great power to make our mind strong, so always have some spare time for meditation.

To change your life, you first need to change your thoughts because changing life is impossible without changing our thoughts. All positive change first starts with the thoughts and then they take the shape of reality. I know that it is easy to  say and difficult to do because mostly we feel that we have no control over our thoughts. However, it is not the case, we can change our thoughts with focus and practice.

I wish a positive life for everyone and in the future, I will share more ways to take control of our thoughts and live a positive life.


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