Friday, February 27, 2009

Importance of getting advice

Getting help from others is not a bad word. However many people try to avoid help from other. Mostly, these people can do the job wrong, but will never ask for someone’s advice. For them help is a bad word and against their values. They do not realize that by just asking for help, how they can save themselves from their problems. We can easily take advice in any matter. Some advices are directly given to us and some are indirectly shown to us. Advice is a kind of thing which we can even get from a small child.

There is nothing bad in taking an advice. Advices can save us from going on the wrong path and wasting our time. Therefore we should always remain open to them. In life it is not possible to face all the problems and then find solutions. Going without preparation to face a problem can cost us dearly because we do not get second chance to face lot of problems. Therefore it is advisable to take advice from other and become prepared to face them.

Advices can be taken from anybody like from a friend, an elder or consular. It does not matter from whom we are getting advice as long as person giving advice has something to offer. Sometime in life even small child can tell us a valuable thing. We should not feel shame in getting help from others and should be open to all sources of information which are useful. Lot of people have passed their whole life in doing same mistakes. Their mistakes can work as guide for us. More over it is not important that we are getting solution or not. However only by sharing our problems can sometimes tiger right response and provide us opportunity to think with different angle.

This is also experience of my life. Due to the help of many of my friends I am able to solve lot of my problems and take right decisions. We should not treat the others life experiences as wastage, but try to use them as a book of life lessons. This approach can really help us and can improve quality of our life. Most of the times, others will also feel happy in telling their experiences to us.

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