Saturday, August 30, 2008

Importance of Art of Listening - Success Mantra 7

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I hope that you are enjoying this series of articles which highlights key factors helpful in getting success in life. In the Success Mantra 6 - Importance of Confidence, we talked about confidence and how confidence is useful for getting success in life. Today, we will talk about the art of listening and how we mostly ignore this rule which is very-2 essential to attain success in life.

The basic problem with most of us is that we want to speak and only speak. If we try to calculate the percentage of people who are good listeners then it will come out to be very less because we all have so much to say that we have no space left for listening. This is the story of every person in this world. However, a number of times, it has been proved in the world that art of listening can provide a great help to any person. I myself have gained many friends in the world without uttering a single word with the help of art of listening.

The other question which emerges is that how we can learn the art of listening or what it is all about? The answer is simple that art of listening is very simple to understand and use in life. For this, we first need to understand why we all love to speak more. We all are made of a number of emotions, perceptions, and self-beliefs and mostly, we believe that what we think and believe is right; and everybody else is wrong; therefore, mostly we find it very difficult to listen to others.

Due to this reason, we either stop listening (may be physically or mentally or both) to the other person or we interrupt him by giving our own point of views. We can easily see a race to speaking more in every group conversation. There is also a reason behind why people speak more because it is a perception in the minds of people that who speaks more is considered a knowledgeable person than the others. This concept may work truly for a group discussion; however, in real life art of living gives more rewarding results.

Therefore, with time, we all people have mastered ourselves in the art of speaking more and listening less. However, when it comes to emotions, relationships, trust, and friendship then people who are good listeners have a clear edge over the others. Good listeners have more successful emotional and professional relations as compared to the people who speak more. The reason is simple good listeners provide enough emotional support for the other person thus creating a strong bond between each other.

We all can easily become a master of the art by simply understanding that listening is also important. We also need to avoid providing our personal solutions and fixtures to the other's problems; only by listening to their problems silently we can easily help the other person by showing confidence in his abilities. We need to learn that it is better if people themselves find solutions for their problems.

When you will speak less and listen more, then you will reduce chances of hurting the ego of others; thus ending up with more friends than the enemies.  

Mostly, we remain away from success in life because we ignore the simple things like the art of listening. I hope that you will add the art of listening as the main tool to attain success in life.

Go to Success Mantra Lesson 1

Movie Review- Ratatouille

Mostly, we all believe that cartoon films are made for laughter and fantasy; and it is hard to represent emotions well with them. Today, animation industry has reached its maturity state and due to this fact; we are able to watch superbly realistic animation films like Ratatouille. The major attraction of this movie is to watch full display of emotions by the virtual cartoons characters.

Ratatouille is not only a story of the journey of a rat’s life but it is a very deep story which is presented very well in the form of an animation movie for us. Great story, great imagination, great animation, great production and great voice all give this movie a unique and distinctive look. This film start with main character of the film Remy a rat who has some amazing power of sniffing and tasting.

Remy always wanted to use his talent and become a chef like Auguste Gusteau, a famous chef of France. In his journey toward becoming a chef, he passes through number of challenges and finally completes his dream with the help of a young man called Alfredo Linguini. The major attraction of the movie is to watch Remy completing his dreams with dedication for his work. During this journey, Remy also face number of emotional dilemmas like choosing between his friend Linguini or his rat family and clan.

Alfredo Linguini also discovers a new life for himself with the help of Remy. This is a great movie which is first time made on the topic of humans and rats friendship, which is otherwise have very less scope in real world. This movie gives a simple message of believing on one’s talents in all the conditions. This is good movie for every person to watch and not only for children.

Score-5/5 (excellent)

Great poet of India Saint Kabir

Today’s generation can feel proud about the great works done by ancient saints which are still very much relevant even in the present world. Kabir is also one such saint who is believed to be born in Varanasi city of India in 1398 (as per the current opinion). He is also believed to be died in 1448 in the same city. Saint Kabir has presented a great wisdom in form of his small poems and verses about world, spirituality, god and happiness in front of us.

The main attraction of the Kabir’s work is that he presented infinite knowledge of the world so wisely in few words which is otherwise very difficult to achieve. All this only suggest towards the great intellectual abilities of Kabir. Kabir is called a mysterious person because there are number of things which are still not known about him. Kabir was a Muslim weaver; however, some stories about him suggest that he was born of a Hindu mother but brought up by Muslim weaver family.

However, there is no confirmation about this fact is available so far. Kabir is also believed to be illiterate and he used to give his discloses orally. Today most of the literature available about Kabir is collected by the follower of Kabir. Kabir and his verses also got place in Sikh religious book Shri Guru Granth Shahib. Kabir has made great influence on the Indian people and culture; and still there are large numbers of people across the world those are getting benefited from his work.

Kabir lived his life very simply and as per his own terms and conditions. He does not like to be followed or treated like a big saint or Guru. His advice to the people is to search god inside and not in the outside world. His complete work is really a great master piece which every person needs to read for at least one time.

Condition of Indian Farmers

Check the new article - Worst Condition of Indian Farmers 

Most of the people around the world only know about the rosy picture of India, where everything is growing and soon India is going to become a developed nation. However, still there are number of humanitarian issues present in India which need immediate solutions. One of such problem is suicide by thousands of poor farmers every year. As per the latest study conducted by a Chennai based institute and leading English daily “The Hindu” which states that about 1.5 lakh farmers across India committed suicide due to agriculture related problems in between the years 1997-2005.

Moreover, the study also indicated that this situation can become more problematic in the future if no hard measures are being taken by the Indian and state governments, because the percentage increase in suicides among farmer is much above the average general suicide rate. Today, India may have achieved a leading position in IT or other industries, but agriculture is one segment which has helped India when it needed this help most. Even today, the large majority of Indian population is engaged in farming, therefore, some immediate steps are required to avert the situation from becoming worse.

The major reason behind these suicides by farmers is believed to be crop failure and increasing debts. From the last many continuous years, the agriculture segment in India is not able to show any impressive growth and in future also chances of any growth are very less. However, vast farmer pollution in India totally depends on this sector and any negative move in this segment can ruin their all their dreams.

For solving this problem, our government needs to provide more financial and modernization help to the farmers so that they can also again start making profits from their agriculture business. However, on the other hand, most of the government looks blind on this tragedy and according to them situation is still under control.

Major threat for wildlife in India

Today, we Indians are proudly saying that we are soon going to become a developed nation where Indians will have all kind of the facilities and comforts. However, on the other hand we have completely forgotten about our wild life. There are many parts in India where development is taking place on the cost of wildlife. Today wildlife parks and forests are shrinking and further shrinking. Conditions have become so much alarming that many animals have no option but to enter the human inhibited areas.

Wildlife, Leopard, killing, IndiaSambar in Human area, India, PunjabRecently, a leopard was caught by the forest department of India in the Guwahati city of Assam. Similarly, in last 50 days around 5 Sambar (deer) were caught from the adjoining human inhibited areas of Jalandhar District in Punjab. All these things only indicate towards the shortage of forests and food for these animals. Moreover, these are not just isolated incidences, there are large numbers of similar episodes being reported from different parts of India. Indian population is growing at very fast speed and more numbers of people are   encroaching forest land and converting them into residential and agriculture lands.

The biggest problem in India is that both our government and people are not taking this matter seriously. If all this is allowed to happen in the same way and in the same speed then time is not far away when animals will almost become extinct from our forests. All these incidences are wake up signs before situation goes out of the control and these animals become the victim of Indian growth story.

Need for planning and precaution in Financial matters

Many people know this fact in present world that it is not easy to manage financial matters because people are required to take numbers of precautions and planning for managing their funds with care. Mostly, people who fail in this managed become victim of financial mismanagement. For example, there are large numbers of people around us who become the victim of over and unplanned use of credit cards and loans. Many people take loans and spend money through credit cards but they have very less plans about returning this money.

Due to bad credit history, these people land in the list of people with bad credits. Bad credit has lot of disadvantages like problem in getting new loans, credit cards or getting good financial deals. In developed nations like US this is common story and we can easily find millions of people bad credit history. Slowly, this trend is also becoming very common in developing nations like India and China. Numbers of people who take loans and overspend of credit cards is also increasing in these nations.

Though, initially it look very easy to get loans or overspend on credit cards but sometimes, these financial problems can create big problems from people. Therefore, it is very important for people to solve their financial problems in time before they become big and uncontrollable. With proper financial planning people can easily avoid most of financial worries and tension free life.

Also read-Living a debt free Life

Need for safety while using Email

Dear all e-mail users, I want to request you to remain alert while using your email accounts and avoid responding or accepting rewards or money sharing schemes offered in your mailbox. In the recent times, numbers of Indians have become victim of these frauds due to their ignorance and somewhat greed. Numbers of criminal organisations mainly settled in poor African countries are behind these frauds. Recently, RBI has also issued security alert in this matter. However, still large numbers of people are not aware about these kinds of frauds and become the victim of them. Most of victims receive mails 1) telling them that they have won a lottery with automatic email draw 2) a person want to share some fortune with you 3) a widow needs your help for getting money 4) a bank employee of foreign bank needs your assistance in money transfer and number of other new and realistic methods created on the daily basic. Target of these mails are mostly new online users who have no knowledge about these kinds of the frauds. It is advisable for the people to not share their personal information like name, address, passport details, account number/password or send any kind of money.

For avoiding such frauds-

1) Do not provide your personal email address to unknown person or submit it to unreliable websites
2) Check email for address for extensions like @reply.ebay.com, @123.ebay.com etc in mail because actual mail will always have @ebay.com and no variation.
3) Always remember that there is nothing free in this world and especially in online world.
4) Always use an email service provider with good spam and fraud control.
5) Always keep updated yourself about the new threats and never respond to mails from unknown origin.

Below are few examples of these mails which are mostly in circulation.

Example 1-
From: Lady Fatima Ali H Kasali,
33-35 Greenwich Church Street ,
London SE10 9BJ ,
England.


Here writes Lady Fatima Ali H Kasali , suffering from cancerous ailment. I am a widow , My late husband is Engineer Ali H Kasali a Malaysian. He was into private practice all his life before his death. Our life together as man and wife lasted for two decades without child. My husband died after a protracted illness.My husband and I made a vow to uplift the down-trodden and the less-privileged individuals, as he had passion for people who can not help
themselves due to physical disability or financial predicament. I can
adduce this to the fact that he needed a Child from this relationship,
which never came.When my late husband was alive he deposited the sum of 5,600,000 (Five Million, Six Hundred Thousand Great Britain Pounds Sterling), which were derived from his vast estates and investment in capital market. Presently, this money is still with the
Bank.

Recently, my Doctor told me that I have limited days to live, due to
the cancerous problems I am suffering from. Though what burders me most is the stroke that I have in addition to this cancer. With this
hard reality that has befallen my family, I have decided to donate this fund to you, and want you to use this gift which comes from
my husbands effort to fund the upkeep of widows, widowers, orphans,
destitutes, physically challenged children, barren-women and persons who prove to be genuinely handicapped financially.It is often said that, givers, never lack. I took this decision because I do not have any child that will inherit this money and my husband's relatives are bourgeois and are very wealthy, and I do not want my husbands hard earned money to be missused or invested into ill perceived ventures.

I do not want a situation where this money will be used contrary to the stipulated agreement. I am not afraid of death hence I know where I am going. With Allah, all things are possible. As soon as I receive your reply, I shall give you the contact of the bank in Malaysia. I will also issue you a Letter of Authority that will empower you as the original beneficiary of this fund via my
Lawyer. My happiness is that I lived a life worthy of emulation.
Please always be focused all through your life. Please assure me
that you will act just as I have stated herein. Hope to hear from you
soon, and Allah be with you and members of your family. You can contact methrough my private email address: ladyfatimahkasali@myway.com

Warm Regard,
Lady Fatima Ali H Kasali,

Example 2-

FINAL NOTIFICATION

We are pleased to inform you of the result of the winners of the UK
NATIONAL LOTTERY ONLINE PROMO PROGRAMMER, held on the 16th December,2007.Your e-mail address was attached to these lucky winning numbers
below: 09 14 26 28 30 45 38 Which subsequently won you the lottery
bonusdraw.

You have there fore been approved to claim a total sum of 1,000,000.00
(One Million Pounds Sterling) in cash credited to ktu/9023118308/03.
To file for your claim, please contact our fiduciary agent Mr. Edward
Fring With the feed Verification/Fund Release Form Below

1.Full Name:
2.Full Address:
3.Marital Status:
4.Occupation:
5.Age:
6.Sex:
7.Nationality:
8.Country Of Residence:
9.Telephone Number:

Name: Edward Fring
Email address: mr.edwardfringg01@yahoo.co.uk

Example 3-

GOOGLE INTERNATIONAL LOTTO AWARD

Dear Winner,

This is Google International Lotto Award, a non religious and non racist organization formed to unite the human race in their religion/belief, as we believe God is one and human beings are one not withstanding your religion, race, education or political background.

Dear, you have been selected as one of our lucky winners in this our inaugural lotto awards
which was organized in the spirit of Ramadan and the forth coming Christmas.
The draw was conducted via computer programmed selection system which saw your email
address win in the 1st Category with the following information;

Your ticket no: DI-8923412
Serial no: 654213
Insurance no: 57025
Winning no: DI/418906
Winning amount: £1000000.00 Pounds

Be informed that this 2007 lottery award and payments starts on the 15th Octomber and ends on the 30th of December, 2007.

Your are therefore advised as a matter of importance as it concerns time factor: to contact immediately the director of payments informing him of your winning with the winning details

Name: Lim Meacheal
Telephone: +447045768174
Email: mrlinmitchell5@gmail.com

We wish to congratulate you over your winning as we pray that you will contribute in making
the world a peaceful place for human race.

Yours truly,
Elizbeth Olk.
Example 4-
Uk National Lottery
Ref: L/200-26937
Batch: 2007MJL-01

Email: uk_wordinfoofficedesk011@yahoo.co.uk

Example 4-

ONLINE NOTIFICATION
We are pleased to inform you November, 2007 of the result of the winners of
the UK NATIONAL LOTTERY ONLINE PROMO PROGRAMME, held on the 26th of November,
2007.You have therefore been approved to claim a Lump sum pay out of
£1,000 000
(One Million Pounds Sterling) in cash credited to file XYL/26510460037/06.
Which means you are one of the winners of the Uk Online National Lottery.

To file for your claim, please contact our claims agent;

Mr. Pinkett Griffin
Email:uk_wordinfoofficedesk011@yahoo.co.uk

TEL:+447045721629

Provide him with the information below:

1.Full Name:
2.Full Address:
3.Marital Status:
4.Occupation:
5.Age:
6.Sex:
7.Nationality:
8.Country Of Residence:
9.Telephone Number:

Congratulations once more from all members and staff of this program.

Sincerely,
Mrs. Rose Wood
UK NATIONAL LOTTERY.

Example 5
Will be updated in future

If you found this post helpful then share it others and help others from becoming the victim of such frauds.
Regards,
Arvind Katoch

Accepted limit of plagiarism

In the present world, it is becoming very important for the most of writers, researchers and people working in organisation and institutes to check their data for plagiarism before submitting. Because, large number of institutes, organisation and newspapers are now checking their data submitted for plagiarism before accepting it. Therefore, it becomes very important for the professional to check their data for any kind of plagiarism before submitting it. However, mostly it remains big problem to find a good and accurate method for checking possible plagiarism in the data.

In the recent times, writing has become a common job and advent of internet has even fuelled this field. Therefore, there always remain chances that you may be blamed for plagiarism even for no faults of yours. At present most of the companies do not allow more than 5-10% plagiarism in a single data, therefore it is wise check your data for any kind of plagiarism before submitting. The good news is that people can easily find number of free and paid services to check data for plagiarism from various available data around like university records, official data, online websites, blogs etc. Therefore, people can easily check the extent of plagiarism in their data with the help of this website.

Learn about Forex Trading

Average daily trade in the foreign exchange market is estimated to be around $3.21 trillion. In simple words, we can saw it forex trading. With the increasing world trade, Forex trade is also increasing. Around the world different currencies are sold and purchased regularly or exchanged for certain commodities and services. Due to this regular sales and purchase of the currencies, their prices go up or down as per the demand in market.

Major currencies which are trading in the major world markets are US dollar, Euro, Yen, pound etc. US dollar is biggest currency trading in the world trade markets and large numbers of nations around the world also perform their deals with US dollar. Moreover, we can say that we are living in a US dollar depended world. However, in recent times, many countries around the world are slowly coming out of their dependency on the US dollar. Large numbers of people also invest in different currencies and earn from the foreign trading.

However, people first require having forex training before entering in to this field. Around the world, this is a big business and in developed nation it has become a common option of investing. This is also somewhat similar like investing in the stock market where we wait for the rise in prices of certain stock. People can also find number of good Forex Trading courses for successfully learning this trade. There are number of investment experts available in the market and they guide people about investing money in the foreign trade and earning profits.

Video of my favourite fat Cat

I always liked cats throughout my life and I have great love for fat cats like one is shown video available below. Few years, back I used to have around 15 cats in my home, however, today, I even do not have single cat. Despite this my love for cats has not decreased but it has increased many times. In future, I hope that I will have more numbers of cats with me. Below, People can also enjoy video of fat cat found accidently in US.

Wednesday, July 09, 2008

Watch condition of sports in India

Sometime, it looks very bad to see the pathetic condition of Indian sports other than cricket. In every Olympic, India send hundred of players to represent different games, however, majority of our player even fail in first round of game. This story repeats itself year after year and hardly, we see any improvement in our games. We can easily judge the condition of Indian games when we find that only Indian hockey team and Shooter Abhinav Bindra are so far able to win an Olympic gold medal. Why pollution of billions of people is not able to give few good world class players? Then answer lies in the poor condition of sports facilities available in India. Except cricket stadiums, it is very difficult to find quality stadium for other games in India. Overall, it will not be right to blame our players for this condition because they hardly get any support from government for improving their games. Second biggest reason of failure of Indian sports is wide spread corruption, where money meant for the players never reach the actual beneficiaries but eaten by corrupt officer and politicians. Below is one similar video which highlights the condition of India sports.

Need of Insurance

Our life and business mostly face number of uncertain and difficult situations from time to time. Though, every person in this world want to avoid these difficult situations in his life and business but sometime they come suddenly in our life without giving any time for preparing our response. One option available in front of us for decreasing the influence of these threats is providing insurance cover to our life and business. People can easily buy number of good insurance plans from different insurance players at reasonable rate.

These insurance plans can easily decrease our number of fears related with these uncertain difficulties. Present business world is full of number of uncertainties which can easily create difficulties for business without giving proper warning. In these kind of situations, businessmen can get the help of various Business Insurance plans available in the market. With the help of these insurance plans, businessmen can easily cover most of risk factors and thus becoming more secure. Similarly, we have number of insurance plans for general people which provide help to them in life threatening situations.

Difficulties can come in our way at any time in our life and mostly, it is not possible for us to stop them, however, we can easily make ourselves more difficulties proof by opting for few good insurance plans. Today, more and more people are realising the benefits of insurance in their life and business. Insurance companies are also providing number of innovative and attractive products making life easier for millions of people across the world. In future, we can hope that more and more people will enjoy the benefits of insurance and make their life more secure.

Role of difficulties in shaping a person

It is very difficult to find a person in this world who loves to have difficulties in his life because mostly, we all look and pray for easy life than having difficult life. However, we forget the role of difficulties in shaping person’s life and making him perfect. There are many examples available in this world where many fools have got converted in to wisest people of world, many poor in to richest people of world, many cowards into fearless creatures when difficulties acted on them and changed the path of their lives.

I can even give my examples, once a time, I was a struggling person with myself and world, however, today I am much focused and concentrated person, thanks to numbers of difficulties which forced me to develop myself. Like me difficulties change lives of millions of people across the world, however, it mostly depends on us that we learn lessons from these difficulties or not. People, who learn the lessons which difficulty wants to tell them, mostly emerge as winners in their life while people who fails in understanding these lessons leads a painful life and curse their fate.

Fate can be a big force in making or breaking the life of a person, however, there are many examples of people in this world who have won over fate in number of battles. It is basically our internal courage which gives us power to fight with these difficulties and learning from them. In nutshell, it is more important to learn timely lesson from difficulties and emerge as stronger person with time. Many people in this world fail in making changes in them or becoming stronger person because they do not face any difficult situation in their life.

Therefore, if we are facing some difficult problems in our life then we must consider them as opportunity of improvement in our lives. It is very difficult for any person to avoid difficulties in their life but we all can positively learn number of things. Therefore, it is important for us to learn the positive role of difficulties in shaping a person.

Living a debt free Life

Today, we all live in a very alluring world full of many attractive credit card and personal loan offers. Some of these offers look so attractive at first sight that large numbers of people find it hard to resist them. However, I want to warn people about taking these loans or credit card options without having any proper need.

Moreover, it is also very important for people to have a proper plan about how they will repay this money in future because otherwise like millions of people of world, they can also land in various debts related problems. It is very important for people to have a proper Debt Management system in place for avoid problems like non payment of loan or credit card instalment.

With proper planning and management people can easily avoid most of the debt problem from coming into their lives. The good news for the people is that they can easily learn number of debt management methods at the websites like cleardebt.co.uk. People can also get the help of options like IVA (Individual Voluntary Arrangements) for coming out of debts easily.

Like this people can learn number of good options for managing a debt free life by constantly updating them with available options. In the present world, it is very important for the people to remain more updated and careful about their financial matters because financial matters are day by day becoming more and more complex to handle.

Also visit-Need for planning and precaution in Financial matters

Need of Changing with Time

It is very important to change with time and even without our knowledge we all change with time. In simple words, we can say that change is ultimate truth in this world. We all see world around us as per our perceptions and beliefs and with time, these perceptions and beliefs go on changing. Therefore, it is not necessary that a person who was your fast friend few years back will remain your fast friend in present also.

Similar is the situation with him also, for him you may not remain same attractive person as you were few years back. Due to this reason, we see people changing friends from time to time or their friends changing them. This is common story and no person in this world can escape from this fact. Our all relations will met with same fate positive or negative in near future and mostly, we have no control our these situations.

Though, it is possible for us to stop change from affecting us but we can never stop changes happening in others. In nutshell, we can say that we have no control over the change because it is affecting everything in this world. Best possible option available with us is to accept changes positively and learn to live a balanced life in this changing world.

When I accidently meet with Happiness

In the present world, one thing is very difficult to get and this is happiness. According to most of the eminent psychologists of this world, Happiness is the main motive of our all actions. In simple words, we are doing most of things in this world to get happiness in return. However, still we find around us that majority of the world is unhappy. It is not the case that only poor or people suffering from illnesses are unhappy in this world but many rich and healthy people are even much unhappy than the poor and ill.

Now, why so much unhappiness in world when most of the saints say that we can easily find happiness inside our heart and mind? Recently, I accidently discovered one answer to this question which may also provide help to others in finding happiness. Most of us are never able to differentiate between happiness and pleasure during our life and most of time misunderstood pleasure as happiness. Pleasure mostly results when sensual organs interact with some pleasure causing object like touching, smelling, seeing etc. We can easily get the example of pleasure by eating good food which results from our organs of taste, pleasure by seeing beautiful things which results from our eyes etc.

Therefore, our pleasure depends upon our sensual organs and exists for only small time until our sensual organs are in contact of pleasure causing object. Moreover, mostly pleasure start decreasing with time and we may not like same object after watching or sensing it number of times. Overall, a person never finds a perfect solution for getting pleasure constantly and therefore suffers in the end. Whereas, happiness in our internal phenomenon and we are not required to search it anywhere.

Happiness always remains inside us irrespective of our state, power or money. We are only required to see this happiness inside our body and dig it out to remain happy forever. People can get the help of prayers or meditation for getting habitual with state of happiness. People can easily find happiness by separating pleasure from happiness which is actual cause of our most of unhappiness in long run.

Need of making a website?

Today, we are living in a world which is totally attached with each other with the help of billions of websites. We can easily find number of websites in online world related to various categories and there is hardly any category on which we fail to find a website. Ecommerce is also finding many takers with more and more people across the world finding it easy to buy number of items online.

Overall, it depends upon the people how they use website because a website can be used for number of many activities. However, for making a website people are required to get domain registration. There are many websites like godaddy.com, paylessdomains.com.au etc available online which provide an opportunity to register cheap domain names. After getting a Doman name people are required to purchase domain hosting for their website.

Web Hosting solutions are also mostly available with the website which provide domain names. People can opt for the hosting plan as per their need and budgets. After getting domain name and hosting plan, it is time to construct a website. Website designing can be done by people themselves or they can get help of professionals for this purpose. Mostly, it again depends upon the need and expertise of a person.

Sexual abuse of school going girls in India

Sometimes, it looks very hard to believe the stories flashed on the various TV channels about the sexual abuse of girls in schools. In recent few years, the numbers of such incidences have increased many times creating a doubt over the present education system in India. Most of the cases, these school going girls become the victim of their own teachers and school staffs, whom their parents trust most.

Some of these teachers always remain in the search of innocent and poor girls whom they can easily exploit on the name of education and exam marks. On the other hand, these girls do not know how to save themselves from these teachers because schools are believed as one of most secure places in world for students. According to one of the today’s news, a principle in the Delhi based school was sexually abusing girls of fourth and fifth standard.

This news clearly indicates the seriousness of this situation and how millions of school going girls are not safe in schools across India. In just last one year more than ten cases of sexual abuse of girl students are reported from across India and this number is on constant rise, however, our government is still not ready to accept this reality and making life safe for school going girls.

Today, we are living in a society where people are losing their moral values very fast; therefore, we are facing number of new threats which were unheard few years back. For solving this problem, we need awareness, increased safety and strict laws from parents, society and government.

Also visit-Articles on Women and Women Issues

Increasing use of internet in India

In recent times, dependence of Indian people on the Internet has increased very fast and on the yearly basis, number of people using Internet for their basic needs in increasing very fast in India. Mostly, this increase is coming from the younger generation of India which is finding Internet as a very convenient option for doing number of jobs. We can easily find number of services like Internet banking, online ticket booking, online shopping, and finding life partners online etc becoming very popular with the general public of India.

If Internet popularity goes on increasing in similar manner then time is not far when Indians will become the highest users of Internet in world. As per the recent survey published in Economics Times on Internet use, around 40% of Indians searching for jobs found their recent jobs with the help of online job portals. All these finding only tells that how important and useful Internet is becoming for us. Moreover, we can also expect more increase in the reach and usefulness of Internet in near future, where we are performing our most of the jobs online.

In recent times, spread of Internet is so that many middle age and old people are also forced to learn Internet to remain competitive or in touch with younger generation. Today, knowledge of basic Internet usage is very important for every Indian and it can easily provide help in simplifying their lives to some extent. With the increase in the popularity of Internet among the masses, chances of Internet related frauds have also increased.

In last few years, many Indians have become the victim of these online frauds because of less familiarity with the Internet and possible threats. Overall, it is very important for every Indian to learn Internet and simultaneously, also remain alert from all kind of the threats.

Usefulness of Targets

Mostly, we people believe that Targets are only helpful for big organisations and people working sales. Therefore, it is very difficult to find people in life who follow targets in their ordinary life also. However, targets are one thing available in front of us which can easily make our lives more fulfilling and rewarding because targets allows a chance in front of us to stretch ourselves and becoming more productive in life. Second, targets also give us a chance to increase the level of our performance and achieving success in life.

There are many examples available in front of us of successful people who have achieved extraordinary milestones in their lives and mostly, these people give carefully made targets all credit for their success. It is very easy for any person to use the power of targets for making his life more productive and rewarding and for this purpose; we only require to have strong will power for following our targets.

Success is mostly not a big issue for all those people who follow their targets effectively. However, people are required to start with lighter targets and then slowly increasing the level of targets because we need soft targets for becoming habitual of following targets. Overall, targets provide a greatest opportunity available in front of us for making our dreams come true in near future.

Making Shopping easy with online help

Today, online shopping is making many things simple for us and we can easily find number of attractive options online which can make our shopping easy. Let’s take the example of items like mobile phones. People can easily buy many varieties of the mobile phones from public stores; however, many time people find difficulty in getting proper knowledge about product or getting variety of options. Many times, shopkeepers only sell brands and products which provide benefit to them and they do not consider the proper benefits of the customers, therefore, it is very important for people to properly select items and look for variety to make right choices.

It is very easy to find mobile phones from number of manufacturers in the market but many of these brands will not be as effective as leading brands. Therefore, it is always wise to go for the branded products and moreover, look for the products which others also like. People can get the help of websites like eBay. in which makes it easy to find the right products in the particular category and buying them online. People can easily search for the products online on leading websites like eBay. in. On these websites, people can easily find good variety and information on the products; therefore, people can easily make their shopping decision and make their shopping easy.

Real Face of Begging in India

In its February issue Top Indian magazine “India Today” Magazine has published a survey about Indian beggars. Mostly, we people have very less authentic data available about the condition of beggars in India; therefore, this survey provides a lot of good information about the conditions of beggars in India and some of its findings very alarming like number of graduates and postgraduates beggars are increasing in India. Main points which comes out of survey are-

1) Average income of beggars in Metros is Rs 80.
2) 70% of beggars spend more than Rs 50 per day and 27% send more than Rs 100 in a single day.
3) Most of the beggars in India earn more than daily wagers.
4) Rs 25000 is the average bank balance of beggars in Kolkata.
5) There are more numbers of able body beggars in India than disabled beggars.
6) There are good numbers of beggars with graduate and post graduate degrees and there number is increasing constantly.
7) 85% of the beggars have no information about the beggar homes.
8) Rs 180 cr is the worth of Beggars in Mumbai alone.

Source- India Today, Feb 4, 2008 (For full survey Report read “Indian Today”)

Begging has always remained a big problem for Indian society. In past, numbers of people and NGOs have tried their best to solve this problem of begging in India, however, most of these initiatives have failed very badly. From this survey one thing comes out clearly in front of us that begging has today become more serious problem and requires some serious action. However, most of the time, we see more talks on begging problem than anything productive done to solve this problem. To some extent, it looks that we people have accepted to live with this problem. There are many examples available where beggars have earned huge fortunes with begging. Some of the facts like entry of graduate and post graduate beggars are really alarming signs and show the increasing reach of begging in India.

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Sunday, June 29, 2008

Videos and Pictures of Batt Puja Kangra Himachal










Kangra Belt of Himachal is known for number of festivals. Batt Puja is also one of it. This Puja is believed to be must for every married couple in this belt and mostly performed by every married couple. Recently, I also got chance to visit one Puja. This Puja is believed to help people by clearing their way to Heaven and help in acquiring credit of other fast and religious rituals. Though, slowly these traditions are dying and new generations are going away from these traditions. Therefore, I thought of uploading videos and pictures of this Puja so that next generations can watch our rich tradition. Video is not very fine still it provide a good watch.

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Increasing commercialisation of education in India

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Read the new article - Increasing commercialization of education in India and its side effects

In recent times, we are witnessing a new trend in India and due to this trend; today education has become a way of earning lots of money by businessmen, politicians and bureaucrats. For most of these entrepreneurs education is nothing more than a way of making good returns from their investments and due to this reason, they are charging huge amount of fees from students, while students mostly have no option in their hands except giving this fees in the hope of getting a good education and later good future.

We can easily give the example of flourishing MBA colleges across India where average annual fees is around 5-10 lakh rupees; however, the facilities provided by these colleges are much below average levels. Most of these colleges remain more interested in making good bucks than providing quality education to students. Every year, number of students going for higher professional education is increasing in India and therefore, good opportunity exists for all these colleges to make money by offering such courses. Same condition do prevail in other professional colleges in India.

In many cases, situations even become worse and students feel cheated at the end of courses. However, in India this trend has full support of our government because many big political leaders and industrialists are running these colleges. Therefore, they easily get the required certificates to run these colleges without providing proper educational infrastructure. At the end, we can say that for these people education has today become an option to make money only than providing quality education to students.

This is really a shameful situation for country like India where our great leaders have stressed on quality and free education. There are many people in India, who still live under poor conditions and therefore, they first find it hard to afford this education and second, if can afford then fail in getting quality education in return. Though, government announce many such popular schemes for providing help to poor students but these schemes mostly do not get any takers due to less information and rampant corruption in system.

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When shortage of Electricity and Water will stop in India

Mostly by seeing impressive figures of growth people start believing that things are very fine in India and everything is only growing here. However, there are certain basic things which are actually going in the reverse direction like availability of electricity and fresh drinking water. Hardly, summer has knocked the doors of north India and people here have started witnessing long electricity cuts and shortage of drinking water.

Every year, our centre government and state government’s claims number of breakthrough in solving these two basic problems, however, next year situation only become even worse than the actual situation last year. At certain places, these situations have already started showing alarming signs with electricity and water not coming for even days. Problem of water is more alarming than the shortage of electricity because of the depleting ground water levels and ground water getting polluted due to industrial waste.

In some parts, ground water is no longer safe for drinking, however, due to non availability of other alternatives people are forced to drink this water only. Demand for water is increasing every year while natural resources which are providing water from many centuries are shrinking on the yearly basis. On certain summer days, people in northern India have to live without both water and electricity.

This is really a worry sign for the growing state like India and can cause big problems in the future if corrective measures are not taken soon to solve these problems. From educated people to conserving ground water, there are many options available with governments and people to decrease this problem considerably and make life of people easier.

When decisions forced on us

In life, we all face number of situation when we are forced to take certain decisions which we never otherwise thing of taking. I put these decisions under the category of forced decisions because these decisions are mostly opposite of our basic nature. For example, if we do not like to hurt anyone in this world then sometimes due to the adamant or irritating attitude of few people we are forced to take decisions which can hurt these people.

However, we cannot blame directly ourselves for these decisions because other people some time constantly make number of efforts to hurt us or our feelings. Now if these people do not take care of our feeling then for how long we also can respect their feelings. Similarly, this finding also becomes relevant for us and we need to see reason hidden behind the bad behaviour of certain person towards us.

Therefore, we are also required to remain alert of our own actions and avoid hurting the sentiments or emotions of others. If in this world, every person start taking care of this fact then no person in this world will be forced to take forced decisions. Forced Decisions are mostly negative decisions against the will of a person and therefore, we can never expect positive results out of them. Life looks good if it flows in a natural way and not in forced way.

We all need to generate a habit of giving due respect for every individual of this world and his individuality. With mutual respect to each other, we can easily make this world a heaven for every human being where no one hurts anyone.

Who can forgive me?

Sometimes, in life we find ourselves in very strange situations where we find it very difficult to get some answers. One of such answer which many people search in this world is who can forgive them. In life, we all take number of decisions and steps where we do not have any clear idea of what is right for us. Therefore, we take decisions depending on few facts and perceptions.

We never know exactly in these situations that we are taking the right decision or not, therefore, a guilt of may have taken a wrong decision haunt us for whole life. In these kinds of situations, we find ourselves in very helpless position because we mostly do not know where we can find our answers. These kinds of the situations are very often faced by people who give lot of importance to emotions than the logics.

Many times, we also have straight logics available in front of us still our mind tells us to believe something else. These are really very complex situations, though they are simultaneously no situations at all because they are created by our emotional guilt. These situations even become more difficult when we realise at later stage that we have taken a wrong decisions and have hurt the feelings of some other person.

This dilemma leads to a situation of confusion and we ask this question from ourselves that who can forgive us? This uncertainty can be very fatal and can even cause lot of damage to person. Therefore, best solution available in this kind of situation is accepting the law of karma and taking decisions best as per law of karma.

Later in life, even if these decisions become wrong still we should not worry about this outcome because we took a best decision in past as per the law of Karma (as told in Srimad Bhagwad Gita). In life, we can never become 100% sure about a decision; therefore, we have to take some calculated risks.

Huge cost of Armies

There are more than hundred countries in this world and every country has its own armies. Armies are mostly made up of the strongest people from these countries those are provided with latest weapons. Every country wants their army to be among the strongest armies in the world.

Therefore, there are many countries in our world which spend at the tune of 20% to 30% of their GDP on holding these big armies and in certain war and terrorism effected countries cost of armies even go beyond this range. If we calculate the cost of all armies of the world then it will come out in many-many billions.

If we wisely calculate then this money is enough for giving food, clothes and shelter to every needy person on earth and if we do this then no one will die on this earth due to the shortage of food, clothes and shelter. However our hatred and distrust on each other is not allowing this to happen. We are busy in creating new weapons of mass destruction which can destroy earth many times. We are busy in making our nations better than rest of the world. We are not interested in making this world a better place for every person of this world.

I do agree that armies have given us lot in return like providing help in calamities, saving us from enemies etc; however still we can easily reduce lot of unnecessary wastage of money on them. By this small effort if taken by all countries, we can easily make whole world a more beautiful place to live for all of us.

Changing Job Concept in India

IN the last few years, India is seeing a massive change in the ways of people work here. Today, Indians are no more dependent of conventional jobs and they have many opportunities of attractive jobs available with them. These new jobs are changing the perceptions of people about jobs. Some of these jobs are so lenient that people are not even required to go out of their homes.
In this list, first comes the name of BPO industry which has made it possible to work at night for millions of Indians youngsters, which option was only available in manufacturing industry so for. Moreover, BPO industry has also helped many graduates and undergraduates in earning good amount of money for their good life style. Second place in this category is occupied by IT industry which has offered people many solutions for working and people can even opt for completing their work from anywhere.

People are only required to submit their projects on time and they can work from anywhere even from their homes. Third change which we are seeing is seeing in present time is working for US companies from India, there are many works available for Indians through the platform of internet like tuitions, writing works or experts views etc which people can do while living in India and are getting paid from US and Europe. These are really few welcoming changes which are going to change the ways through which we were looking jobs in India. All this is really going to offers many great opportunities in front of Indians.

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Thursday, June 26, 2008

Importance of wasted Time

Thanks to modern fast life, we all are becoming faster than machines. Life is becoming only fast and fast due to competitiveness of our world. Today we are so much busy that we do not have time for our self. First we are busy in our work then in our house work and finally in other crisis. Due this we mostly start living an irregular life which causes lot of waste of energy, time and resources.

Mostly we land in situations where whole of our schedules lag behind or remain in problems and finally creating more tensions for us. In the end, after living such fast life we find our self in many difficult situations. This problem may be attributed as one of the main reason behind increasing metal tensions in the world.

The other biggest problem is that most of the people know about these things, however, very few of them are able to take any concrete actions for solving these problems. In the end we waste a bigger part of our life in these wasteful activities and repent in the old age for these wasted moments which can be otherwise used in more productive way. The difference between successful and failed people is that successful people are able to utilize this time wisely while failed people do not recognise the importance of this time.

Finally, it only depends on us that we want to become a failed person or want to be remembered as a successful person. Time is a great key available in the hands of every person which has the potential of opening locks of many fortunes for us.

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Debate on Power of God

Debate on Power of God

From many centuries, people across the world are challenging the power of god in their own ways. In every challenge, god has shown his power to human beings, still many people do challenge god regularly. We all see many claims and counter claims on God, which sometimes strengthen or loosen our hopes on the God.

Almost all the religions points towards a force which is beyond our reach but still governs all of our fates. Simply, we all see this force as God. There are many miracles which are done by this force. Some people are present in this world those do not believe on the God and believe all these miracles as matter of chance.

On the other hand many religions from past times are pointing towards this unknown force. The belief on God provides people with a power to face difficult situations in world. The belief on the God has given birth to a great spiritual development for mankind which is helping many people in this world. God is still a very big power within all us and provides all of us with a great strength.

We can get the help of this great power for becoming stronger in this world. Numbers of people have already used this force for achieving great height in this life. All such people have given all credits to this great force for their success in life. Now, it only depends on us that we trust this power of god or not.

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How to become confident in Life?

Confidence is one of the most sots after thing in present world. Every person wants to have confidence and simultaneously, confidence is desired in every person. Most of us already know it’s important in life. We know how confidence can create a huge difference in our life. We have seen my confident people in our life and we have always tried to look like them. We have seen how confidence has made other people more successful than us. We like confidence and we want to be confident.

However, problem is that we are not able to achieve it. Very few of us are able to realize this. Moreover, it is also very difficult to remain confident in all conditions whatsoever they may be. For example many people at certain times are confident and at some other place and time they behave like people who lack confidence. To find a person who is really confident in all conditions and all situations is a hard job; however, if we meet one such person then we can clearly recognize differences between him and other people who lack confidence. These types of people are extraordinary in them and are highly successful in their ventures. A different charm can be seen on their faces. Everyone likes to talk to him, work with him, love him and likes to become like him.

This is the main reason behind the success of these people. We know all these secrets; therefore, we have a desire to become confident. However to become a confident person is not an easy task because we have earlier also tried many ways to become confident. We followed many people for this and read many books, sadly nothing helped us. We are still same old people, who are looking towards others to fulfil their needs. We depend on them and also controlled by them. The main question is that we ever tried to see reasons behind it. Reasons can be many behind our failure to become a confident person. Some of them are associated with our lifestyle and understanding of world.

Many people in this world born and die as slaves of other. How you may ask? It is simple most us doesn’t live our own life. We are not living to fulfil our dreams, but most of the time we are only fulfilling others dreams. Other people exploit us by fulfilling our small dreams in the exchange they are fulfilling their large dreams. Therefore most of us don’t live their real life. We are only able to achieve our some basic dreams. Therefore inside we remain as unfilled person. And an unfulfilled person can never be confident. We are searching confidence in wrong things and at wrong places.

Real confidence lies inside us and we can achieve it by fulfilling our true desires. We do not need anybodies help for achieving it. It is already present in all of us, only the world has made this process complex. They do not want us to be confident. They require us to fulfil their dreams because without us they cannot do this. We are required to understand our inner self and get its help in searching purpose of our life. Once we realize our purpose of living and try to fulfil it. Then day by day we will find our self more confident. This is the most simple and easiest way to get confident in life which God has made for us and everybody has right have it.

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Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Why Comparison is a disease?

Comparison is one of greatest diseases present in our world and we are taught to do it from our birth. From our birth our parents start comparing us with other children. Our teachers compare us with other students. From the beginning we are being told to compare our self with others. This is a greatest disease, because everybody is born unique and comparison is just not possible. I am unique in my position and similarly, you are unique in your position. There is actually no person present in the universe whom with you can be compared.

Each man is a unique creature of god. Everybody has born in this world for first time and with unique skills. Therefore no comparison is possible. Comparison only brings trouble, if someone fall victim to this disease of comparison then he will become either very egoistic or very bitter. It all depends upon on whom you compare yourself with, if you compare yourself with people who are better than you, higher than you, greater than you, you will become bitter.

You will become a complaint against the existence and an anger will occupy your mind that why you are not better than others? Why I am not like others? Why I am not physically strong? Why I am not beautiful? Why I am not intelligent? Why I am not this or that? And thousand questions of this kind. If we go on doing this then we soon become very bitter person. Our life becomes poisoned by comparison. We always remain in state of depression and behave as life has betrayed us.

On the other hand if we compare our self with people who are in some way lesser than us, then we become very egoistic. This is the main reason why rich people collect lot of weak and poor people around them. This gives them opportunity to feel bigger than others. Ordinary people look at the success of rich, their houses, their achievements and therefore feel bitter about the existence. They start looking at God as it has betrayed them. Therefore without thankfulness for creator, there is no prayer and without prayer there is no religion.

However, a man who understands the uniqueness of everybody feels immense gratitude in whatsoever supreme power has given to him. If we do not compare then we are neither bigger nor smaller, neither ugly nor beautiful, neither intelligent nor stupid. And if we do not compare then we are simply us. In the state of simply us spring come in our life because a deep gratitude towards life helps in bringing this spring full of heavenly bless.

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Wednesday, June 18, 2008

How to mange a Servant? (Inside Servant's mind)

Yesterday I got a chance to witness confession of a servant. Earlier my thinking about the servants was not good. I thought that they are people who are physically strong but they have no intellectual ability. However, confessions of this servant changed my whole thinking about other servants. He made my perception more clear on right and wrong. He was doing his job for last ten years. He was getting two thousands rupees as a salary (45$). He was feeling very unhappy because the other servant in the house was told to leave his job.

The other servant was working for last fifteen years in house. He was told to leave job by the owner of house because owner found him guilty of cheating. The servant told me that no one in this world wants to cheat or do wrong things. It is the world which make him do all these things. When the owner himself go for shopping then he purchase a certain item for 100 rupees while same item is purchased by the servant in 50 rupees saving 50 rupees. He told that if servant retains these fifty rupees then there is no crime.

The other thing which hurts most of the servants according to him is suspicion on them. They are always under suspicion from their owners. He told that a servant always be given some freedom in his work. Second problem faced by servants is not getting enough hikes in their salaries. They continue to work for years on the same salaries. When their families increase then it become very difficult for them to survive on same salary and thus they may restore to wrong things.

For maintaining a good relations with the servants owner require to have constant conversation with him and in conversation he must give due importance to servant’s views. This conversation will help owner in accessing the needs of servants in well advance. If a servant is given some extra responsibility then he must be dually rewarded for his extra work. Few extra rupees will not only sometimes motivate him but also encourage him to be away from wrong doings.

Managing servants is similar to managing people in organizations. Only by doing few motivational things one can retain the honesty and commitment of a servant. Smart living makes the all difference.

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Saturday, May 17, 2008

Positive Effect of Globalisation

Money plays a vital role in fulfilling our requirements in today’s world. We need money to purchase lot of things. Some things come in our budget and some are out of it. We all know these facts; however desires for getting every possible thing remain inside us. There are certain things which are associated with the class. A product range which is made for some few lucky people. These are ordinary things presented in a unique way, like a watch with gold body or a mobile with diamonds pasted on it. Now the question which arises is that whether we require increasing earning level of others or making these things more affordable to others.

These unique things remain associated with very small group of people. Most of the people in this world are not able to take the pleasure of having them. They die with the desire to have them. An example of telephone in India can give us some light in this direction. In India up to 1990 having a telephone connection is a distinct dream for many. People those who have telephone are treated in different way. In that time telephone was associated with status symbol. To get a telephone connection is hard job. You may have to wait up to three to five years for getting the telephone connection. In Late 90’s comes mobile phone. Now mobile has replaced the position of status symbol form telephone.

In the last five years status symbol of mobile has also been challenged. Decreasing prices of mobiles and calls have made it the thing of everybody use. Due to competition, there are now present lots of plans which are even affordable to a common man. In India mobile has penetrated deeply inside it. This change is possible only because of increasing competition and Indian government opening up of its markets for world. In this way a commodity of the use of few has become the requirement of many. Moreover all this is possible without any change in income level of people. Only the service has become more affordable to many. Hopefully more things will go in this direction and become available to masses.

Politics at Work Place

Many times we see lot of people leaving their jobs because they found work place politics affecting their life. Internal office politics involving people at work place are sometimes bad and unavoidable. These politics not only affect the normal working of job, but also may sometime cause people to quit their jobs. This results in loss of human resource for a company. To get good people for working in any organization is a difficult task. However to ignore internal politics at work place can cost companies dearly. People usually want to remain in groups; sometime they do not like others to enter in their group.

This tendency sometimes forces formation of lot of subgroups in the office. For every group agenda of their group is more important than what is actually required. They try to promote people from their group more over the others. They sometimes also try to let down the people of other group. This action creates many group rivalries. One group try to hinder the work of other group, in this they even forget the goals of organization. Group rivalries are most common and can be seen in big offices where lot of people work. These group politics are one of reason behind collapse of work due to the non corporation and are great cause of low performance.

Second type of politics is seen in individual basis. Many people try to be smart and play with the emotions of other. They are not associated to any other, still they are in all group. They pretend to be the friends of many, but actually they are with nobody. Their main purpose is to achieve own selfish results. They create misunderstanding between the people. They remove their enemy by creating a bad image for them in others eyes. They never fight their enemies directly, but provoke others to take revenge for them. They try to make their enemy alone by creating misunderstanding for him in his friend’s minds.
They first make a person alone and then become friend of him. Being pretending as friend, they know many of his secrets and upon feasible time use them against him. In this way they are able to remove their enemy without fighting him directly. These kinds of politics are most dangerous and to know it that someone is doing it against us is a difficult task. This kind of politics is main reason behind the many people leave their jobs.

So we should be alert of politics in the work place and try to avoid indulging in them. Indulging in them may unnecessary cause lot of difficulties and simultaneously should be aware about others doing any politics about us.

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Going behind Easy money

Money always fascinates us and we are attracted towards it. Everybody wants it. There are lot of struggles in life which are associated with earning money. We know with the experience of many that for earning handsome money, a good combination of luck and hard work is required. Habit of consistent approach toward some work can help us in achieving it. If we do hard work in some direction and get a good attention in it. Then, this attention also brings with it some good fortune for us. This may be in the term of money or brand image of us. There onwards it depends on us, how we increase or decrease this achievement.

A consistent hard work and good luck makes us more wealthy and successful. Therefore a success or money is nothing except a combination of hard work and good luck. However irrespective of knowing these facts we go on chasing the easy money. We want to achieve things in few minutes which are achieved by others in years. We believe in luck, but we totally forget the hard work. We make our self totally dependable on luck. Due to this attitude we sometimes land in lot of traps. We land up in lot of schemes which promise us to make enough money, without doing the enough work.

We forget here that the both hard work and luck are equally responsible for ones success, by ignoring one of them we cannot think about becoming successful. We do not require being masters of everything to become successful; however only a super mastery in one thing can make us a great achiever. Therefore instead of moving here and there we are required to concentrate of one thing and achieve high degree of proficiency in it. If we go on doing work in this way, some day our achievements will make us different from rest of others.

Whenever anybody thing about that art, your name will be associated with that art. You will become the master, the guru of that art. This is the real success in all term and nobody can easily take this from you. Everything name, fame and money will come to you. In this stage you do not have to think about the money, you will grow above of these things. This is the real success, which can never be brought by any easy money. More easily we earn the easy money, more fast we lose it also. Secondly the most of easy money earning planes are short term gains and can leave us helpless after some time. So we are required to be extra conscious in choosing the kind of money, we want to earn.

How still women are treated like Inferior sex

Women are here from the time of evolution of mankind. God has created both man and women at the same time for betterment of world. Both man and women depend upon each other for further development of life. The circle of life will stop, if one of them disappears from earth. However the state of women is not more than an inferior sex in present world. Most of the present world is in the control of man. This is true to the whole world, even for the developed countries like America and UK. Even in these nations women are treated badly or miss behaved. If this is the state of women in developed countries then, what we can accept from the countries like India, Pakistan?

Though, women across world have seen overall improved in their standard of living, but still many things are required to be done. In education women have achieved good success and their numbers in schools and colleges are either equal to men or more than them. This is an encouraging sign for all women. However the major concern is the number of women occupying various top positions in jobs. The numbers of women at the top position are very less. There are only 17 women executive directors in 100 largest FTSE companies. Only less than one seventh of members of EU parliament are women. Researchers believe that the women representation in corporate leader has remained stagnant for years together.

The main reason for women not continuing with the job or taking the higher positions may be that with the increase in the status of women they become less desirable. A man can love his secretary, but the chances of loving to his boss are very less. Therefore many women opt to sacrifice their carrier for their family or love life. This reason has made Norway’s parliament to pass rule that 40% of the directors on corporate boards should be women. In India it is even more difficult to find a qualified man to a highly qualified girl. There is a tendency in the mind of men that their wife should be less superior to them. The chance of a man marrying a woman more qualified to him is very less.

The other major problem faced by the women is their inferior sex image. They are treated as a being which need someone to save her and give her shelter. Women may climb the mountains but the leadership qualities will be always attributed to man. This image sometimes plays major role in decreasing the self confidence of women. Women may be the most wonderful thing on earth, everybody may want to marry her and have sex with her, but nobody wants her as daughter especially in India. This is clear from the recent data made available by the government of India which show in the age group of 0 to one year for every 1000 male children there are only 830 girls Childs in India. In some states it is even less than 800. Therefore we require a major change in the thinking process of society regarding the women.

Friday, May 02, 2008

Overcrowded Loneliness

Today, we live in a busy world. In this busy world, nobody has any time for any one. In the present world, we are overcrowded by so many people, however when the some need comes arises in our life, we find no one present to help us. For everyone their own work is more important than us. This is true up to some extent with all of us also. We have every kind of media available for our entertainment still many times we have nothing to watch or listen. Recent years we have advanced in many fields. If we compare our self with the people’s 30 years back than we are very advanced and busy than them. Facilities wise we have more options than them. In every way we are in good condition than them, therefore we are required to be happier than them.
However, the realities are totally different from it. People are very busy still they are more alone than people’s 30 year back. Everyone is running from here and there, even then they are not able to complete their daily tasks. More and more entertainment channels are coming up to entertain us. As compared with the people of 30 years back we have more ways to remain in contact with our friends. We have mobiles, e-mails, chats and voice chats. However, to everyone’s surprise there are more number of people who feel alone as compared to their friends 30 year back. For example when I bought my mp3 player, I thought that I never be bore again. Now I have so much choice of music to listen. However within two months I also started becoming bore with my mp3 player.

Life has become so competitive that we are always short of time. We are over burdened by the expectations of others. Chances of getting defeat at work place or in life are more prominent these days. Today the numbers of people who carry on with single job and partner are becoming less. At jobs they are not able to maintain speed with others and felt lonely. In relations also they are not able to provide the required time. In toady world, evil of comparison is increasing between people, we compare our self and other compare us. Our boss compares us, our wife compares us and more importantly we compare our self with others. The only difficulty with this comparison is that their expectation from us and our expectations from our selves increases many times.

When we are not able to fulfil these expectations which are difficult task in today’s world, we feel alone and discarded. 30 years back very less of people go outside their home for work. Therefore in difficulties and emotional disturbance they have their family and friends support. However, it is not so with today’s generation. Today’s loneliness is more dangerous in many ways because it increases the wrong feelings in one’s mind. Some opt for suicides, some lose their mental balance and others indulge in antisocial activities, which is bad in all ways for society as a whole. Below are the some of the ways to solve this problem and by indulging in them we can decrease our loneliness.

1) Have some creative work for free time like writing, painting or dancing.
2) Give your life some small and achievable goals.
3) Try to work on your interest rather on the others expectation. We really enjoy what we like.
4) Help other is settling their life.
5) Indulge in social activities.
6) Make more and more friends, but never forget friends who are real and helped us.
7) Take some correspondence studies according to your interest.
8) Go for vacations with close people.

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Where is real Arvind Katoch?

Life is a complex journey and it goes on becoming more complex as we go ahead with it. When I was a child I always wanted to become young as early as possible. I felt that young people have lot of power and they can take their independent decisions. I always wanted to take my all decisions myself; moreover I also wanted to become a self independent person. However in reality after being a young man today, life is turning me into a different personality which I never wanted myself to be? People’s expectations, family’s expectation, friend’s expectation, job’s expectation and relative’s expectation, all are making me to behave in some unexpected way, in a way which I never liked. This is a way which is more superficial and away from reality.

Due to this, my emotional feelings are getting killed and I am becoming more and more emotion less person, or simply a dead human. Many times, I have to put a false face on my face to make others happy. Many times I have to hide my feeling and emotion for not to hurt the feelings of other people. On the other hand people do not take care of my feelings. Some people take advantage of their position; some take advantage of their relation and some of their intelligence to make me fool. I do not want to say that everyone is bad but many people around me are doing this with me. They are only trying to make me fit in a place where they can take advantage from me. Everyone is looking for his advantage by using me. Some want money from me, some want emotional support, some want praise, and some may want other things.

Sometimes it becomes very difficult to fit with all these expectations and all this give me a feeling of being used. I am not a usable thing and anybody does not have any right to change me. Today, I am not what I wanted to be? But I have no fault in it because I was not allowed to become my real self. Today I am trying to regain my lost powers and wisdoms with the help of my God Ganesha. Some people are taking these actions as revolt against them and feeling very awkward and are in their actions trying to threaten me to change the path. However, I am determined to get back my lost life and become a person who I wanted to be? (A real and simple person not in the eyes of others but in my own eyes)

Do we understand Religions?

Religions are being made on this world for helping a man in attaining godhood. At different locations and under the direction of different philosophers or Gurus, we all accepted the different paths for the realization of God. We gave different names to these paths and in this way different religion of the world came in front of us. Initially, people were living in small geographical locations and independent of each others, therefore these all religions flourished in this world.

Today, we all are living in a mixed world where people from different religions are coexisting with each other. However, in this coexistence, we are also facing religious intolerance for the others. Many followers of the respective religions are busy in creating atmosphere of fear and hate among the peoples of other religions. People from all the religions are responsible in this matter. Today we all have become more near to our religions but away from the God and its teachings.

Racism, suicide bombings, terrorist acts, killing of innocent people on the name of religions are some of the ugliest approaches taken by religious fanatics which are creating problems for the common followers of the God. Question of superiority of religions never arise because religions are any way more than just path of attaining God and nothing else. If we go on fighting on the names of religions and killing innocent peoples then we are actually disobeying the real God which is much ahead and more powerful than any religion.
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