Monday, January 29, 2007

Unknown Fears

There nearly 90% of people in world who are affected by unknown fears. These fears are wiping out them slowly and slowly. With the growth of technological advancements and hectic schedules, these fears are becoming more and more prominent. The main fear among them is fear of future. Future is not seen by anybody and nobody knows what's there in future is for him.

Still most of us remain anxious about our future. The main reason for the rise of future worries as major fear is that we are living in extremely erratic world. Nothing here is stable. Everybody is running for something. Competition is very stiff and therefore people at the lower level obtain no right to make their decisions. They are just forced to behave, live and work according to the orders of the others.

As the things are not in their control, therefore frequently situations become out of their control. They find themselves as hostage in the hands of others. Any losses out of these conditions where they have no authority make them apprehensive about their future. Therefore they got trapped in the middle of situation from where they can not think about the other alternative. This makes them frustrated and nervous about the future.

In this situation they are not able to do anything, but only can fear about the future and slowly die. Second fear is of the change. As we become old with the job, then the fear of new things starts affecting us. The fear of competition from new generation and non proficiency in the new technology make us suspicious of ourselves. We start fearing that the new generation with take over us or we will be unable to cope up with the new technology.

Our superiors exploit this situation to compare us with the new ones. More problems come when these new generation got success more than us. Here starts the fear of inferiority. In our subconscious mind we start believing that we are inferior. Technology divide and variable education streams making it more prominent. Third is the promotion of juniors and or same ranks to higher positions. Many times due to the different circumstances many people go higher than the other of same or more potential.

These circumstances are not in the control of anybody. But these types of developments make us fearful about our position to them. Many times these fears also come true, when people are let down by superiors cum juniors earlier. These situations become worst, when the humiliation is in front of others. These situations may not happen to most of us, but we become fearful by seeing the others fate. Fourth is the inability to cope up with the prevailing situations. Many times in life, situations become more difficult than our expectation.

Here we find ourselves unable to cope up with them. Like the jobs assigned to us or the expectations from us are more than our current potential. Under the pressure or prestige, we cannot admit it publicly. Therefore from the day one we start fearing about the outcome. These are some kinds of fears which are killing the peoples worldwide slowly. We are required to know of our fear well and rectify them, before they can damage us by any mean. Best way is to fight them and come as champion out of them, if we understand our fears and doesn't do anything to control them then we are just knowingly killing ourselves.

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